Wednesday 28 November 2007

angry woman!

i was quite appalled today.

why?

because i went to drop my children of at the local nursery. There was some kind of stall that was giving away little nicki-nacky kids things so i had a look.

a lady confronts me, and gives me a questionaire, basically asking if i was suffering from, or, if i knew anyone who was suffering from domestic violence.

its appalling, my partner knows the people at this nursery and he drops them of as often as i do. Yet, while he's not there, like the true cowards they are, they ask me in so many words, if he is guilty of beating me up. You know, i have standards, and this was disgusting.

who the hell do these people think they are? seriously, who are they? they think they know better than my own relationship with my husband? how dare they try and stick their nose in MY relationship!

all around were posters saying 'does he make you feel small?' - isn't domestic violence a unisex subject? aparently not. I normally ignore this kind of thing, but you could replace the he with blacks, whites, and suddenly it would become wrong wouldn't it? I can see that. Im not an airheaded sheep.

you know what, this is a sure start, state run nursery, its a kids place. They are encouraging women to snitch on their unsuspecting husbands. I have to say im horrified by it. Im starting to worry about what other propanganda they are trying to put in my kids heads..

i feel like the sad truth is, that these people rarely find anyone who is actually suffering from domestic violence, they just construct witch-hunts against innocent and decent caring men who can't control themselves socially very well. I've seen how men act, in situations like this. They cower away in the corner.

enough is enough. I've always said i would stand up for decent family men, and i am absolutely disgusted by this.

you know, i think domestic violence is appalling, but i also think that air headed people trying to destroy family relationships at a local nursery, is just as appalling. There was another man there, he often drops of his kids. Nobody gave him anything, nobody gave him any information, or nicky-nacks. He was isolated, left alone. I felt sorry for him, but i felt more angry at the way these people thought that i was more interested in them, than in my husband.. that i would snitch on him, for their cause?

the only question is, what do i do about it? how do i support my man in such a hostile situation?

and how do men cope with this kind of situation, and why dont they start standing up for themselves? perhaps i was wrong about machoman. Im starting to like him.

or maybe they deserve it for letting things get into this state..

wow i really am going from one extreme to another!

im a roller coaster

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

excellent observations. This is standard feminazi anti family gestapo policy..

Anonymous said...

I think if you farted Drex would applaud it.

lucia vega said...

i doubt that, you haven't spent any time in our house after we've had curry for tea!

i think drex and i are both sociological rebels so we have a requirement to support each other as there is not many of us around!

lucia vega said...

who are you anyway?

Chris Key said...

Hey fruit cake,

You should have kicked her in the cunt!

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lucia vega said...

well chris, we've had this conversation already i think.

thanks for your intellectual input.

lucia vega said...

you know if you go around kicking women one day you'll meet one who sticks a knife in you.

Anonymous said...

I have seen the precise same thing occur with my own eyes.. The state starts its DV busy-bodying even sooner, from the moment of conception in fact..

Anonymous said...

"perhaps i was wrong about machoman. Im starting to like him.

or maybe they deserve it for letting things get into this state.."

Women seem oblivious to the fact that they have an 800 pound gorilla on their side. That gorilla is the government. Women have used their vote to create a misandric government. How can you accuse men of "letting things get into this state"?

Put on your big-girl pants, and accept some responsibility.

lucia vega said...

hes not a gorilla, hes a man!

so, it is mens fault isnt it?

i think you are confusing yourself with your own language.

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Anonymous said...

This is really a good topic, maybe the best I have ever read from Fruit-Cake Lucia Vega.

All what you can do in such a situation is to remain polite and fill up the form making it clear, that there is no domestic violence in your home and that you do not know any case of domestic violence in families of your friends...

What else can you do?

You might maybe ask that staff, why this form is only distributed to women and why not to men.
I do not recommend you to ask this however - you might be considered by feminists as a traitor of your own gender, especially if your child is a boy and not a girl.

Thank you for your honest intention not to misuse your position as a married woman.

lucia vega said...

thankyou yohan, i think the most important point i am trying to say here, is that these people rarely catch anyone who is a real victim of domestic violence.

they just generate mistrust, and anger directed at people who are completely innocent.

women read the propaganda and as it is aimed at men in general, they internalise its message, that men are not to be trusted and reciprocate it without ever actually thinking about the implications that it has.

its very devisive isnt it?

Anonymous said...

The truth is that you can't do anything to stop them. As a woman, you have all the control. You lose this control the minute you dial the police emergency line (911 in the U.S.), because at that point, they may choose to arrest and prosecute despite your unwillingness to help them. What's worse, a nosy neighbor can call police "on your behalf," and put your man in that exact situation, and you won't be able to stop it.

I'll tell you what NOT to do... Never call the police unless you are dead certain that you never want to live with him again. And that's about all the control you really have.

Anonymous said...

Good stuff, FC. I'm not the kind of guy who just wants the likes of you to start agreeing with everyone within the MRM, and would think it was a shame if you lost your individuality, but this is a good post, and a good observation.

These types of cunts are annoying, they just can't mind their own fucking business. Men have to put up with being made to feel like scum of the earth by these DV campaigns, while some of us men, myself included, have suffered from DV while having no support system for us.

If the government minded its own business, these things would sort their selves out most of the time.

The only person who I know who has suffered from DV, is my sister, and trust me, she often assaulted her boyfriend back just as much.

lucia vega said...

I'm not the kind of guy who just wants the likes of you to start agreeing with everyone within the MRM, and would think it was a shame if you lost your individuality

thanks, fs. you can be very kind when you want to be :)

lucia vega said...

As a woman, you have all the control.

i dont see why or how i am supposed to have any control over this situation john?

Otis the Sweaty said...

when are you gonna post new stuff fruitcake? I miss you.


Happy Christmas or whatever the fuck you limey's say

lucia vega said...

hi otis, your messages are so sweet and im on holiday at the moment and this is the first time i´ve been able to get to a computer but i get back on friday so i might write some more gobble-de-gook then, the british say happy christmas! just like you americans, but i reckon you know that already!

stay tuned! xxx

Otis the Sweaty said...

Americans say "merry Christmas". The first time I heard "happy Christmas" I thought it was a joke. You people can't even use the language you invented right.



I'd wish you a happy new year, but I hate New Years so I won't. I think it is a gay holiday.

lucia vega said...

they say both merry christmas and happy christmas here.

an american friend of ours used to always laugh at the word lorry